You went through pregnancy, labor and birth, and now you are
ready to go home and start your life with your child. However, once you get
home, you may feel like you have no idea what you're doing!
These tips can help even the most nervous parents for the
first time to feel confident in the care of a newborn in the shortest time.
Getting help after giving birth
Consider getting help during this time, which can be very
hectic and overwhelming. While in the hospital, talk to the experts around you.
Many hospitals have lactation specialists or lactation consultants who can help
you start breastfeeding or bottle feeding. Nurses are also a great resource to
show you how to care for, skip, change, and care for your child.
For home help, you may want to hire a nurse, postpartum
double, or neighborhood teen responsible for helping you for a short time after
birth. Your doctor or hospital can help you find information about internal
help and may refer you to home health agencies.
Relatives and friends often want to help. Even if you do not
agree with certain things, do not reject their experience. However, if you do
not feel at guests' disposal or have other concerns, do not feel guilty about
placing restrictions on visitors.
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Manipulation of a newborn
If you haven't spent much time around newborns, their
fragility can be intimidating. Here are some basic elements to remember:
Wash hands (or use
a handwash) before handling the child. Newborns do not yet have a strong immune
system, so they are at risk of infection. Make sure everyone who cares about
your child has clean hands.
Support the
child's head and neck. Wear it on your head when you are carrying the child and
support it when you are wearing it or when you are laying your child.
Never shake the
newborn, whether it's playing or frustrating. Shaking can cause bleeding in the
brain and even death. If you need to wake your baby, do not shake - instead,
gag the baby's legs or gently blow on the cheek.
Make sure your
baby is securely fastened to the carrier, stroller, or car seat. Limit any
activity that might be too harsh or jumping.
Remember that your
newborn is not ready for tough play, such as being hurt on the knees or blowing
up.
Bonding and calming
Bonding, probably one of the most enjoyable parts of baby
care, occurs during sensitive times in the first hours and days after birth,
when parents make a deep connection with their child. Physical approach can
promote an emotional connection.
For infants, attachment contributes to their emotional
growth, which also affects their development in other areas, such as physical
growth. Another way to think about bonding is to "fall in love" with
your child. Children thrive on having a parent or other adult in their life who
loves them unconditionally.
Start bonding through the baby bonding and gently stroking
it in different patterns. Both you and your partner can also take the
opportunity to be "skin on skin," holding your newborn against your
own skin while feeding or cradling.
Babies, especially premature babies and those with medical
problems, can respond to baby's massage. Certain types of massage can improve
bonding and can help the baby grow and grow. Many books and videos cover baby
massage - ask your doctor for advice. Be careful though, babies are not as
strong as adults, so massage your baby gently.
Babies usually love vocal sounds, such as speech, mockery,
singing and companionship. Your baby will also enjoy listening to music.
Children's bells and musical furniture are other good ways to stimulate the
child's hearing. If your little one is tormented, try to sing, recite nursery
rhymes and poems, or read aloud as you spin or swing the child gently on a
chair.
Some babies may be unusually sensitive to touch, light or
sound and may start to cry easily, sleep less than expected, or turn their face
when someone is talking or singing to them. If this is the case with your
child, keep the noise and light level down to moderate.
Swaddling, which works well for some babies in the first few
weeks, is another reassuring technique for the first time when parents should
learn. A proper balance holds the arms of a child close to the body, while
allowing a movement of the legs. Not only does the swamp keep a warm baby, but
it seems to give most newborns a sense of safety and comfort. Bloating can also
help limit the start reflex, which can awaken a child.
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